My Brothesr And Sisters

Brother and sister synonym as sibling is a very important relationship. Sibling relationship is one of the longest lasting relationship is most people lives. The three important factors that impact the sibling relationship are birth order, age and the parent – child or parent – parent relationship. This is my story on how I relate the factors with my true life.

Birth order of sibling can play a huge part in explaining the aggression that save siblings have toward each other. Studies have shown that most first – born children are perfectionists, goal setters and they are responsible people who obey rules. I am quiet tidy and respect the law gentlemen.  Sometimes, I often break law by riding to my class without helmet on my head. In contrast, this type character is more relate to second or last born child. They usually an outgoing risk – talker who questions authority. Same goes to my little brother, Afiq which been more naughty from the other. He always go out playing with his friend at night even though my mother had scold him before this.

Another factor that affects the relationship between brother and sisters share is age. As children or adolescent, siblings tends to be aggressive because of jealousy  or some other reason. As adults, they show the maturity and tend to become more friendly towards each other. At home, I’m helping my siblings with their studies. I prefer to play joke with them and spent time watching movies together. My younger sister, Nasyihin. She show the character of jealous at home. She get jealous when my mother buy something for my other brother. However, this jealousy character could happen to the adults. Last factors that affects the relationship between sibling is between parent – child or parent – parent relationship. Parent – child relationship is the styles of parents that always spend good quality time with their children. It is different with parent – parent relationship in which both of them did not have time for their children. Maybe some of the parents are becoming like that because of their work of profession. When this situation happen, children feel abandon and lack of love than their parents. I am so thankful because  I have both of my parents are teachers. My mother works at SK Bukit Rangih, while my father is working at SK Sungai Isap. So they have a lot of time for family.

Brothers and sisters relationship is almost always friendly one during adulthood while the childhood and adolescent relationship is usually rostile. However, in every sibling relationship the other sibling plays a teacher and a role model for the younger sibling. Although not everyone has the luxury of having an older brother or sister, most people would agree that they are major guideline in one’s life.